SnowDay ❄️❄️❄️

Wednesday was my first ever snow day in college. We did snow angels, did the nae nae, threw snow balls, and twerked (lol). Just a bunch of crazy college kids playing in the snow at 2:30 in the morning!😂

Choose Happy!☺️

The littlest things used to bother me but now they don't. What other people say about me doesn't effect me anymore more because I know who I am! I've been in the single season for five months, but these last few months have been a blessing for me because I have more time to work on myself. I I read the bible every morning and my relationship with God is growing stronger each and evey day. I post pictures on Instagram even though I my hate how I look or afraid of not getting enough likes. I read, laugh at funny vines in public, and sometimes I say the wrong words. I used to walk into a room and be like I hope everyone likes me. Now when I walk into a room I wonder if I will like everybody. I don't fall head over heels everytime a guy says that he likes me. If I want to eat a donut, I will eat it like it's the best chocolate donut in the world and not regret eating it. The thing is I'm not living my life for the sake of people anymore. I love myself more than anyone can ever love me and that's the greatest love of all. When you love yourself, you could careless about anyone's opinion and you would never belittle anyone because you don't have to. I do whatever makes my soul HAPPY! Like dancing infront of the mirror. Doing a medi pedi and a facial mask (I am the spa. Lol) Singing out of tune to Adele. Doing Zumba with my friends and pretending we are the best dancers on the planet. Doing little scenarios in my head when I should be studying. Anything! You have to choose happy to be happy. If today was my last day I would want people to know that I was happy. That I was smiling and you couldn't see a single worry on my face. I did things that I loved to do and inspired some people along the way. Be joyful on purpose, always! 1 Thessalonians 5:16

Peace&Harmony,

Shay❤️

Be Mindful

Everybody has those days where they just hate the world and anybody who looks at you strange. You don't stop to talk to people. You blame everyone for making you feel the way you feel about yourself. What I am trying to say is Be Mindful. Yes, you might of had a bad day but don't hurt someone else's spirit just because someone broke yours. Half the time the person or thing that broke us doesn't even know that had an effect on us. Your roommate did something that pissed you off again and you want to tell them so badly but you don't know how you can talk to them without cursing them out first. Relax, rewind, and reconsider. Take a chill pill and think about the situation before you go off because you might say something that you will regret. All I am trying to say is put yourself in their position first. Think from their point of view. Ask yourself if you can handle the situation better. Pray that you will stop acting out your feelings. You want God to bless you but you don't want to love the person who is mean to you or left you heart broken. That's not going to work! In 1 John  4:21 it says  "The commandment that God has given us is: "Love God and love each other!" Hate is strong, but Love heals all things. Share even if you don't feel like it! Ask someone about their day or their classes. Notice the small things and give compliments. We can do so many things when we treat each other the way we would like to be treated. You never know when you might need that same person again. Be mindful of your actions because you never know the hardships and hurt someone could be going through in their life!.

peace&harmony,

Shay❤️

Ask Ms.S!

If anybody has any questions they would like to ask I am here for you! If you want me to write about a special topic like Forgivieness (coming very soon) or relationships, etc. I would be more than happy. Your name will be anonymous and I promise not to judge or be too bias. I know how it is, you wanna talk to somebody sooo bad but you're afraid they will judge you or you just don't have anybody who would understand you. I like giving advice and I would never tell anybody to do something I wouldn't do. It can be hard for me to reach out to other people because I'm a little shy and I hate holding things in. Please tell me if you don't want to use your question on the blog. I will answer your question and send to you my response directly to your address. I just wanna help people stop hurting and who knows you might just help somebody else out. I will respect everyone's privacy and I will not save anybodys email. You don't even have to tell me your name. Just write to me at swherry6@gmail.com with the subject as Ask Ms.S! 

peace&harmony, 

Shay❤️

Embracing the New You | Whole Magazine

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