1. I LOVE having my own space.
Maybe it's just me but sharing a room with a complete stranger is not for me. I'm not saying that having a roommate is the worst thing in the world but being someone who has never had to share their personal space with anyone is most awkward thing in the world (to me) Lol. But it depends on who your roommate is and how both you interact with each other. like if you're more on the quiet and shy side, having a roommate that is more loud and more outgoing might be a little uncomfortable. But you have to learn how to be cordial and respectful, even when you don't want to. Like simple gestures or asking them about their day can go a long way, and never know you might find that you both have something in common.
2. Dating in college sucks (sometimes)!
I tried the long distance thing but it didn't work out like I wanted it to. I have encountered some nice guys who have showed interest in me but the red flags were showing everywhere, and so I had to let them go. And there's the guys that I really wanted to like me but were either taken, crazy, or gay. But I'm not going to cry out for a boo or chase anyone because I know my worth and I have faith in the process that I am going through.
3. Single Life is VERY FUN! (MO' MONEY, NO PROBLEMS)!!
I could be lying if I didn't say that I feel a little salty sometimes looking at couples walk around holding hands and going out on dates. But when I think about my freedom and not having to make plans for another person all the time, I feel content. I have more friends, more free time, and more money in the bank! No seriously these last few months of being have been a blessing because I get make time for myself and learn about myself and what I want. And I don't think I would've enjoyed my first year of college as much as I did if I was tied down. Like going out with my friends and not having to explain myself or who I was with just makes life feel good!
4. I need like three jobs and a sugar daddy (just kidding)!
College is expensive! Let me say that again. College is VERY expensive! From buying books for my classes, paying for institutional fees, Homecoming events, pageants, food (yes, I said food), money is a necessity. I encourage anyone to save up money from working summer jobs or during the semester because it helps. Set up a budget, keep track of your receipts, stay on top of what is going in and what is taken out of your account, and be choosy with your money!
5. The food in the Cafe will make you fat! (Well at least the fries will)
I have never had so much access to food until I came to college! And I'm serious, don't judge me! You walk in, swipe your card (keep your card with you on all times if you wanna eat), check out what's available to eat whether it's grill, pizza, veggies, cereal, sub,etc and sit down. After eating you might feel a little unsatisfied and want something else. And then regret it later. What I am trying to say is that it is so easy to get whatever you want and lose track of what you are eating. The Freshman 15 is REAL but with making smarter choices with your daily diet you can beat it and come out victorious and not as another victim!
6. I love food!
Food is my second boyfriend, next to the one that I don't have. He comforts me when I am lonely, and fills me up when I am hungry. Just kidding, but after these last two semesters I do have a deeper appreciation for food and what I put into my body!
7. Some of my professors should not be teaching a class.
Don't be afraid to ask an upperclassman about a teacher before you sign up for their class, because they might just save you from a long confusing semester. Ask about the course load and what you could be doing to prepare for the class.
8. Not everyone is going to be your friend, and that is okay!
Seek respect, not attention. Not everyone is going to like the same things that you do but the only thing that matters is that you like yourself. And when you practice self-love and heed out the people who don't respect you, them everything will fall into place and you will meet people who love you for you! Trust me I went three weeks sitting in the cafe all by myself because I was not going to associate with people who did not respect me and my beliefs. And out of nowhere I met people with the same interests that I had and we are like sisters.
9. A relationship with God is the best relationship you can have!
Everyone falls short and trust me I hit rock bottom this year, but I don't regret my past because if I didn't I wouldn't have rediscovered my love for God and Jesus Christ. Having a relationship with God is a lifestyle. You can't highlight the scriptures you want to hear, and ignore the things you don't like. You have to give him all of you and that includes changing your ways and your thoughts. I had to learn how to meditate on his word throughout the day, pray for the good and the bad, and love all people even when they don't deserve it. I am growing more and more everyday into the woman God wants me to become!
10. Some people are just compulsive aXXholes, but you just have to let them be great!
People are going to hurt you and you are going to meet a lot of evil people in college but you don't have to give them sometime of your day! Pray for their insecurities instead of talking about what they did to you because it only makes the hurt feel worst. Don't let evil defeat you, but defeat evil with good- Romans 12:21. Kill them with kindness, and bury them with a smile, and I swear you will confuse all of your enemies so much that they will have to love respect you!
11. It's okay to be a Good Girl!
Just because everyone is outside partying, smoking, drinking, and having sex doesn't mean you have to do the same things. When I tell people that I don't party or drink they look at me like I am an alien or something. I have learned that it is okay not to be in the in crowd like everyone else, because what is popular is not always right. What turns other people on doesn't really fascinate me as much. I look forward to Friday and Saturday nights when I can paint my toenails, eat popcorn, and watch a good movie on Netflix. Make your own type of fun instead of following others!
12. Procrastination is the enemy!
Finally I just want to say that it is easy to get off track in college but you have to keep your priorities first. Sometimes I would put off an important assignment and put it off to do something else and then end up having to cram or cancel plans just because I procrastinated. You will have to learn to say "no" to the things you want to do, and "yes" to the things you have to do. But if you do what you have to do first, and then you will be able to do want to do later. (Confused, or Nah?) College is full of many great opportunities and you can experience every single one of them if you keep you keep working hard, and remember your goals. You can achieve anything you set your mind to!
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